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Dear intended parents and surrogate mothers, I know that the world of surrogacy can feel overwhelming, and there is so much misinformation out there that can create unnecessary fear and confusion. I have compiled these answers to the most common myths so that you can move forward on your journey with clarity, confidence, and peace of mind. Every answer here is grounded in truth, empathy, and the latest research available.

Sharing a surrogacy journey on social media can be a beautiful way to celebrate the path to parenthood and educate others, but it must be done with care, respect, and privacy in mind. 

Rare, but it can shake the surrogacy journey from the ground up. Over the past few weeks, I’ve been contacted by a growing number of intended parents facing serious uncertainty due to the sudden deterioration of a surrogacy agency they were working with.

Mexico has quickly become one of the most sought-after destinations for international surrogacy, and for good reason. Since a groundbreaking 2021 Supreme Court ruling opened the door to all types of families, the country now offers one of the most inclusive frameworks for intended parents worldwide. 

Colombia is widely seen as one of the most accessible surrogacy destinations in the world. It is open to same-sex couples, single parents, and international intended parents, which makes it especially attractive to families who may face restrictions elsewhere.

The holiday season often highlights what’s missing in our lives, especially for intended parents awaiting a child. I know that holidays can intensify that feeling of loss, longing, or pressure, even among all those festive celebrations.  I know you worry, but I want to tell you that it’s natural to feel a mix of anticipation, hope, and frustration during this time. 

December can feel busy and fraught with pressure, especially for intended parents still waiting for a baby. Instead of treating year-end as a deadline, view it as a chance to breathe and recharge. The holidays can be bittersweet for those on this journey. So, I believe that taking time for self-care helps manage all that stress and embrace the December season on your terms. This December, give yourself permission to slow down, step away from endless to-do lists, and simply BE

Starting the surrogacy process can bring waves of hope and anxiety. I’m Olga Pysana, an independent international surrogacy consultant, and I’ve supported many intended parents through exactly this journey. Although I’m not a therapist, I want to share what I’ve learned about the emotions that often arise. Every feeling you have is valid, and it can help to know you’re not alone. Let’s walk through some of the common challenges and coping strategies together.

Surrogacy journeys often come with a whirlwind of paperwork, phone calls, messages, and constant decision-making. It’s easy to become so wrapped up in the process that you “can’t seem to remember who you were” before your quest to have a baby began.